Visiting a gurdwara (Sikh house of worship) is a peaceful and welcoming experience. Here’s a helpful guide to ensure your visit is respectful and meaningful.
🧍 When You Arrive
- Dress Respectfully: Wear clothing that covers your shoulders and knees. Avoid shorts and short dresses. Loose-fitting clothes are recommended as you will be sitting on the floor.
- Head Covering Required: Cover your head with a scarf, bandana, or cloth. Hats are not appropriate. Don’t have one? Ask near the entrance—extras are usually available.
- Shoes Off & Hands Washed: Remove shoes and wash your hands before entering the prayer hall. Storage is available for shoes and a handwashing area is usually nearby.
- Avoid Intoxicants: No alcohol, tobacco, or drugs (including in the parking area).
- All Are Welcome: Women can attend regardless of menstrual cycle.
- Need Help?: Feel free to ask anyone! Most gurdwara attendees are happy to assist or offer a tour.
🕌 Inside the Prayer Hall
- Respect the Guru Granth Sahib: Upon first entry, bow before the Guru Granth Sahib if you’re comfortable. Otherwise, quietly take your seat.
- Seating Arrangement: Men and women may sit on separate sides, often due to cultural norms.
- Maintain Reverence:
- Avoid pointing your feet or turning your back toward the Guru Granth Sahib.
- Refrain from loud talking, clapping, or using phones.
- Use flash photography only if permitted.
- Do not step onto the stage/podium.
- Parshad (Sacred Offering):
- Accept with both hands, typically kneeling.
- It may be handed out near the exit or passed around by volunteers.
🍛 Langar – Community Meal
- Everyone is Welcome: Langar is a free vegetarian meal served to all, regardless of background.
- Sit Together on the Floor: Meals are enjoyed while seated on mats—symbolizing equality.
- Head Covering Still Required
- Dietary Restrictions? It’s okay to decline or skip any part of the meal you’re not comfortable eating.